Thursday, April 16, 2009

Top 10 qualities of a good girlfriend


Girls famous lines... "If you want a perfect girlfriend...Go find Barbie!!!"
Well well well girls you can be barbie too! ...

1 . Never make the first move
I strongly believe that women should never pursue a man. Instead, she should wait for the man to initiate and plan dates. If a woman keeps on calling, she'll never knew if a man is interested to her and the man can possibly take advantage for convenient reasons.

2. Has a real life
Girls! Girls! Girls! always take care of yourself, focus your own personal style, continue your dreams, find time to hang out with your family and friends. " Don't expect your boyfriend to be your entire existence" says Daily


3. Do things to show you care

Caring is a trait every man is looking for in a serious girlfriend! Have a life to your boyfriend show to him you care the most. If you are so busy, just simply do little things just to show you care. Remember: There can be regrets in doing nothing. So keep it up!

4. Understand your man

Men are not programmed. They are humans. So consider their other commitments (except for harm)


5. Be your boyfriend's best pal

Being a girlfriend is not just a " Future wife" material. It's kinda boring right? consider your age too! and try to enjoy what you have now. Share all the worst moments, your hobbies and favorites. Treat him also as your best friend.

6. Never pressure your man

Avoid calling him every now and then and don't drop hints about the future. Just chill and relax! don't mention the "marriage" word...men aren't programmed...they usually pla in secrets! so wait! " men don't constantly take the pulse of a relationship" says Daily "They would rather enjoy it".

7. Know your responsibilites and know where you stand

Have a real life but still remember your responsibilities as his girlfriend. Don't get insecure too much. if somebody's flirting with your man,don't get mad with your man immediately, it's not his 100% fault, ignore those girls and made them feel so jealous to the extreme...prove to them that your man will never replace you for her. In the other way around, if you investigated a flirting moment between them, it's okay too get mad but "GET MAD MODERATELY" okay? don't just get mad to the point of ruining your relationship with him. Anyway, it was just flirting and 80% of guys do that. The most worst question that you should never ask: DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF TO THAT GIRL....the more you compare, the more you get insecure..feel beautiful, be beautiful, keep on blooming!

8. Keep sexy with dignity

"Respect" is hard to gain just like trust. So, be sexy without being trampy.

9. Do not take any crap

Never accept bad behaviour. Guys respect women with whom they can't get away with anything. If he knows there's a penalty then he respects you more and he far less likely to do it.

10. Love your man with all your heart

Just listen to your heart!!!

Atonement

Atonement

I first found love
from heaven above.
I did everything
and missed nothing.

I grabbed opportunities
like they were freebies,
as if it was the last time to love
like a free dove.

Suddenly the gloom
replaced the bloom
I had heart palpitations
to every dark situations.

Is this the feeling I have to falsely show?
Or the feeling I have to hide?
Because I can't control it, I have to cry.

Either way my heart doesn't lie
even if people would not ask why.
Don't care what people think about
my heart's extremely sunken.

A dark situation made it this way.
There's no time limit, I can feel it everyday
Now it's time to let him go
even if my heart still says, "No."

I have watched my heart shatter
into a million pieces.
I felt as it went deeper
into dark unknown places.

I am standing here where people walk
with no one to hold on to, no one to talk.

The renaissance of my soul will kneel in front of a cross
and I will make amends, I will willingly ask for forgiveness.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

10 tips to be beautiful

1) Don't be so over conscious and avoid the mirror when in crowd
2) Don't put make up every now and then. (Keep in mind that being natural is a real beauty queen)
3) Have self confidence
4) Avoid "The Blabbermouth" attitude
5) Always wear a smile in your face
6) Be comfortable of what you wear
7) Love yourself
8) Be yourself
9) Possess a good attitude
10) Carry yurself in an appropriately, efficiently and smartly manner

Fashion - matching and mixing




My blog starts with a question...
1) Can only rich girls create high fashion? the answer is No.
2) Can only rich girls wear perfect clothes? the answer is No.
Creating high fashion comes from the heart and expression and not to impress other people.
Perfect clothes doesn't only compose of almost a thousand $$$. Whatever ideas come and you think that ideas will totally be you and only you then try to cut out and design in your own. High fashion is a great versatility of expression with no limits. Truly, the fashion that creates in our mind has no limits. Thus, it doesn't need a long time for you to think what to wear. Just simply know and familiarize yourself with fashions you are comfortable depending on the mood you're into. Determination is always important .